Permissions

May Konan spy on your character? Yes, No, Maybe for plot reasons? Let me know.

Reverse Permissions

Hugging this character: Yes. Please watch out for one another's wings.
Kissing this character: Yes. She'll be uncomfortable with it, but go ahead.
Touching this character (non-sexual, ie. shoulder pat): Yes.
Touching this character (minor sexual - clothed grope): Yes, though she may try to hurt you.
Flirting with this character: Yes

Fighting this character: Yes. She has 24 years of combat training/experience, so it's not the best idea, but yes.
Hitting this character (minor damage): Yes, if it's close range. Hand to hand is Konan's weak point.
Severely injuring this character: Talk to me first.
Killing this character: No. I may change my mind at a later date, but for now, no.

Reading this character's mind: Talk to me first. I'll probably say yes, but I'd like to know when it's happening so I can provide some thoughts for you to work with.
Using mind control on this character: Talk to me first.
Fourth walling this character: No.
Spying on this character: Talk to me first. Espionage is one of Konan's strong points and it would be difficult to pull this off.